Living in the city has some great perks.  We have the beach at a stone’s throw, festivals to fancy anyone’s delight, and different nightlife activities to cater to even the unique of circles.

This leads to meeting many different kinds of people… tall, short, strange, beautiful, different races, religions, ethnicities, and so on…  Which helps us create a mental checklist of things we want and don’t want in a potential partner.

Straddling the line of staying in the game and being kicked to the curb, lies the deal-breakers.  With so many options, which breakers are valid, and which are part of your own neurosis? (more…)

The success of a night out on the town is completely in the eye of the beholder.  Some gauge it on the pleasant conversation, some the chemistry and future prospect, and others… the horizontal tango.  Often times during that first encounter, the act of slowly becoming three sheets to the wind is briskly followed by an intimate encounter between the sheets.

So what’s next?

Besides the sometimes awkward exchange in the morning, trying to remember their name, or possibly floating on cloud nine (or stumbling across it), one might often wonder… does this have any real potential? (more…)

So I wrote this post awhile ago, but I realize I should have timed it a little better because it is a little cold to do this now.  Maybe we’ll have a lucky day somewhere in here where you can actually try this out.  Or if you’re like those polar bear swimmers, you can just muscle through the cold and get after it.

Somewhere between that Architecture tour and dyeing the river green on St. Patrick’s Day, you’ve seen people floating down the river where it seems they have no business floating.  I’m not referring to dead bodies that the mob disposed (cement, remember?), I’m referring to the happy go lucky people floating in kayaks.

This week’s date idea is kayaking.

Let’s break it down:

Pro’s

Unique - This isn’t your typical dinner and drinks date.  Something fresh will keep you both on your toes, even if you’re both beginners. (more…)