Before you hop on that horse and gallop out into the sunset with your damsel, there will be a few key plays that you’ll need to be aware of that can greatly shift her perception of you. One of these plays is early on is the first group hang out session: her group or yours.
Which should you do? What’s the better move? Did you have to eat chili for lunch? All valid questions… let’s take a closer peek.
One of the great ways to meet someone new is to dip into the the pool of your own friends network.
Always a tried and true path, trying to date someone that already has your friends approval puts them a few steps ahead of a random that you meet on your night out. As long as your friend has decent taste in friends… which I would hope you think so… then it never hurts to roll the dice and give it a shot if you think a mutual friend could be a potential interest.
The sticky situation can occur when things don’t go as scripted. Their phone calls spike past ‘ok freak, ease up’ volumes, and you realize that there is no way you can see any potential. What happens when it doesn’t work out? (more…)
One of the perks of being a grownup, in addition to buying candy without asking for permission, is the ability to choose your own friends. If a person rubs you the wrong way, you don’t have to join their softball team or put up with mindless chatter about the always interesting Chicago weather.
It’s the ultimate power that is often taken for granted. Don’t like the way I talk? Then get lost pal. Oh it bothers you when I talk about something other than your life? Then scram!
The one time this situation gets sticky is when your lady’s friends are the enemies you’re trying to swear off. She wants you to meet up for drinks with her gals, or even worse, spend the day with them while you’re stuck thinking of a hundred different excuses that will get you as far removed from these creatures as humanly possible.
How and why should you have to put up with this? (more…)