Things are on the up and up.  You’re on a steady once a week hang out, frequent phone calls, and the text messages are beginning to get the everyday vibe.  Just when you think things are running smooth… Bam!  It hits you like that surprise bar tab you pull out of your pocket the next morning that rings more than just a couple digits.  Just my luck!!

A birthday.

If only it were back in the good old days.  Gather all your friends for cake and ice cream, smack around a pinata filled with candy, and play some pin the tail on the donkey.  Even if you pinned that elusive donkey’s head, you still go home at the end of the day satisfied and smiling.

Now, its a delicate game of thin ice.  Too many marbles, and the house comes falling down.  Too few, and she’ll wonder if you’re even interested in playing the game. (more…)