The success of a night out on the town is completely in the eye of the beholder.  Some gauge it on the pleasant conversation, some the chemistry and future prospect, and others… the horizontal tango.  Often times during that first encounter, the act of slowly becoming three sheets to the wind is briskly followed by an intimate encounter between the sheets.

So what’s next?

Besides the sometimes awkward exchange in the morning, trying to remember their name, or possibly floating on cloud nine (or stumbling across it), one might often wonder… does this have any real potential? (more…)

Sometimes when you’re bored out of your mind, or sitting on the toilet without a magazine in arms reach, you pull out that cell phone and start combing through the lost barrage of names in your phone book.  Lost old friends, single serving friends you met on a random night, or even that name that just as a single letter “M” who you can’t recollect to save the shirt on your back.

Occasionally these lost souls have a way of coming back from the past to once again appear in that Recent Call list.  A friend recently asked me what it means when a guy she used to date or “hang out” with contacts you after a long period of radio silence. (more…)