Let’s paint a picture like Bob Ross.  Only this painting isn’t going to have happy trees and a secret bush that only we know about.

You’ve just started talking to this girl and it’s still fresh… maybe just a month or two.  A handful of dates and a couple sleepovers.  During your disheveled stay at her place, you’ve met the roommate and the playful banter has begun to move one notch above ‘friendly’ in your mind.  You may find yourself laughing with her more, have a easier flowing conversation, or even simply find her more attractive.

Entree envy.

This puts you in a very sticky situation.  What are you going to do if the roommate is a better fit for you than the original? (more…)